I have given out more than the normal amount of infractions to various posters. Some of theissues have been real life attacks, trolling (of a nasty sort), attacks on UO players in general. I like to see attacks based around teh game not around RL experiences or what you think they should do to you in some virtual smoke infested bar. 1. I will will give you an infraction if you use terms I would see on the basketball court. Be creative, this is a fantasy game after all. 2. any comets about RL experiences or traits or physical characteristics will not be tolerated. 3. try and realize taht the perspective you have in the game is not the perspective we have on the board. there are things you can say and do in game you cannot do here. find the happy medium. 4. as has been said many of us would happily get along outside of the game, but we don't, so remember we all have feelings and real lives. So treat each other accordingly. 5. the boundaries I see are very similar to a professional setting so look to that for pointers on how to behave if you can't. 6. for all you military types, don't say things that would get you in trouble with the MCJ.