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Taking game to seriously?

Discussion in 'UO Great Lakes' started by imported_FireCrazy, Mar 17, 2008.

  1. Seven Ways to Win Back Your Gaming Spouse
    Are games ruining your relationship? Fight back with these seven tips.
    By Mike Smith

    It might be hard to believe that a video game could destroy a relationship, but after we talked to Jocelyn, a Californian whose six-year marriage dissolved when her husband developed a crippling addiction to the massively-multiplayer online game World of Warcraft, we were inundated with similar stories of woe and heartbreak.

    It's too late for Jocelyn -- who divorced her husband in 2005 and has sworn to keep away from gamers altogether -- but it might not be too late for you. If your significant other's gaming habits are harming your relationship, here are seven ways to beat the game and reclaim your love life.

    Watch World of Warcraft Trailer
    1. Learn from the game
    Games like World of Warcraft use classic behavioral control techniques: they tie small rewards very closely to repetitive chores. If your spouse is neglecting household tasks -- a common complaint among sufferers -- try employing a little positive reinforcement. The next time he empties the trash, play a loud 'Ding!' sound and tell him his Refuse-Disposal skill just increased.

    2. Suggest a date at a video game movie
    Just make sure it's a good one, because most of them are terrible. Resident Evil is a good choice, and assuming your spouse is male, the prospect of staring at Milla Jovovich for an hour and a half should certainly pique his interest. Don't let him sneak off to play his game once the movie is done, either: segue into a more intimate scenario before it ends, or you'll lose his attention.

    See Resident Evil Movie Page
    3. Fake a power outage; cuddle up with candles and a board game
    No matter how bad your addiction is, you can't play Warcraft with no electricity. Slip out to the junction box and flip the switch (after, of course, making sure any sensitive equipment is safely powered down). Your spouse will be devastated, but they'll be looking for something to keep their mind off the game. What better chance to propose lighting a few candles and playing a round of Scrabble?

    4. Put some game into your nighttime activities
    If your spouse's gaming addiction is cutting into your bedroom time, think about how you might switch up your usual routine. If they're into military games like Call of Duty or Splinter Cell, uniforms aren't hard to find (nor are night-vision cameras, if you're game). But if they call you a "n00b," it might be time to think about kicking them to the curb.

    5. Try a different kind of role-playing game

    See Sexy Costume Examples
    If you're having trouble distracting your husband from the game, surprise him with a treat. World of Warcraft is packed with sexy female characters (and, let's face it, most other video games). With a little effort in the wardrobe department, you can recapture his attentions by dressing up as a character from the game. We'd suggest a Night Elf as a good starting outfit. For bonus points, learn the character's corresponding dance moves.

    6. Get away from it all
    Surprise your spouse with a weekend getaway to distract them from their addiction. Something that incorporates outdoor activities is best, because then he or she won't have the time or energy to miss their game. Try skiing, mountain biking, watersports, or fishing, or head for an action-packed hotspot like Vegas or New Orleans. Stay away from relaxing beach vacations, and for goodness sake, leave the laptop at home.

    7. If you can't beat 'em...
    If all else fails, it's time to consider extreme measures. Have you ever played the offending game yourself? Lots of couples play Warcraft (or similar online games) as a team, leveling up complementary characters and turning isolated and nonconstructive activities into good, old-fashioned quality time together. Most massively multiplayer games are deceptively easy to learn, and you'll have the benefit of an in-house expert to answer your questions in exhaustive detail. Just be careful not to start shirking familial duties yourself.

    Of course with all the Haxz(ors) going on and people leaving its not going to be a problem with UO, EA will ruin it before this happens!
  2. `Lynk

    `Lynk Guest

    I tried to get the woman to play. She laughed out loud at me. And then called me a newb.
  3. Heh..yeah the old ladies birthday is today..she asked where we were going tonite..I told her Majestic madness at MOA....Hopefully my housekey still fits when I get home!
  4. Guest

    Guest Guest

    Personally I refrain from the whole spouse thing all together.... this way I get all the gametime I desire and NO headaches.... .... that and I don't have to "share" my accounts.

    Although.... If I could find me a rich fella who's either just as addicted as I am.... or he is like a doctor or some such where he's GONE more often than not.... then I'd have it made... [​IMG]
  5. mist

    mist Guest

    That is too funny Deke. Ya, I hope you can still get in the house after that one. You could at least buy her a potted tree or ethy llama as a present and show her.
    I agree with Willa. Being single, no one can tell me when to play and if I ignore the vacuuming to fight Dark Guardians, oh well:)
  6. BlackBetty

    BlackBetty Guest


    I tried to get the woman to play. She laughed out loud at me. And then called me a newb.

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    This statement sounds more like you were trying to get her to "play" and she laughed out loud at you. I seriously doubt it had anything to do with UO.